How to Be a Mom Without Losing Your Self

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Doña Bumgarner on Parenting

As much as you love your kids, parenting can be a struggle. In this episode of Woman Worriers, host Elizabeth Cush talks with Doña Bumgarner about how ease some of your anxieties about being a mom.

When you hear those stories about parents getting vastly judged, when you feel unsure about what your choices are in your own family, it becomes paralyzing.
— Doña Bumgarner

Show Notes:

Being a mom can be a great source of joy and fulfillment. But it can also be a great source of stress, anxiety and frustration. In this week’s episode of the Woman Worriers podcast, host Elizabeth Cush, LCPC, of Progression Counseling in Annapolis, Md., talks with Doña Bumgarner, host of the Nurturing Habit podcast and a life coach for frustrated moms. Together, they explore the challenges of parenting today and the societal pressures that can feed a mom’s anxiety. They also share perspectives on feeling OK about your choices for your family, tips on taking care of yourself without adding more tasks to your to-do list and ways to create a life that feels meaningful for you.

Listen and learn:

  • Why moms need coaching

  • The myth about parenting that drives much of our anxiety

  • Why social media adds to parenting anxiety—and how to put it into perspective

  • Why it can be more helpful to be more honest when we share

  • The role played by our expectations of ourselves as parents

  • The reality of being a mom: Sometimes it’s really boring

  • Why it’s OK not to love staying at home with your kids

  • Why reading “How to…” parenting books can add to our frustration and anxiety

  • Where to find the answers that are right for your family

  • How news headlines influence our parenting and add to our anxiety

  • Why it’s so important to get in touch with your values

  • Why you need to revisit and re-evaluate what’s important to you over time

  • How knowing your values helps protect you from overcommitting yourself

  • Why self care doesn’t come naturally to so many of us

  • The aspects of self-care that don’t show up on Instagram

  • How to keep self-care from becoming just a chore—and another source of stress

  • Where to find resources and support

     

Learn More

> Doña Bumgarner’s website

> Nurturing Habit podcast

> Get Back in Control of Your Life workbook by Doña Bumgarner

> Nurtured Mama classes

> Doña Bumgarner on Instagram

> Doña Bumgarner on Facebook

> Progression Counseling

> Contact Me


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